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All the Lives We Never Lived by Anuradha Roy

All the Lives We Never Lived

by Anuradha Roy

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  • Nov 2018, 288 pages
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A poignant and sweeping novel set in India during World War II and the present-day about a son's quest to uncover the truth about his mother.

In my childhood, I was known as the boy whose mother had run off with an Englishman. The man was in fact German, but in small-town India in those days, all white foreigners were largely thought of as British.

So begins the story of Myshkin and his mother, Gayatri, a rebellious, alluring artist who abandons parenthood and marriage to follow her primal desire for freedom.

Though freedom may be stirring in the air of India, across the world the Nazis have risen to power in Germany. At this point of crisis, a German artist from Gayatri's past seeks her out. His arrival ignites passions she has long been forced to suppress.

What follows is her life as pieced together by her son, a journey that takes him through India and Dutch-held Bali. Excavating the roots of the world in which he was abandoned, he comes to understand his long-lost mother, and the connections between strife at home and a war-torn universe overtaken by patriotism.

With her signature "precise and poetic" (The Independent) writing, Anuradha Roy's All the Lives We Never Lived is a spellbinding and emotionally powerful saga about family, identity, and love.

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"Starred Review. This mesmerizing exploration of the darker consequences of freedom, love, and loyalty is an astonishing display of Roy's literary prowess." - Publishers Weekly

"Starred Review. Roy (Sleeping on Jupiter, 2016) peppers her novel with intricate descriptions of small-town India and weaves an eloquent and tragic story of straitjacketed lives upended when history and personal ambition intersect." - Booklist

"This novel has an epic feel but also portrays the feelings of an abandoned child and captured woman while strongly evoking the sounds, scents, plants, people, and social structures of India at the time." - Library Journal

"Lyrical, subtle, [and] finely observant. .... A novel of history, both global and personal, gracefully wrought." - Kirkus

"Anuradha Roy blends historical fact and remarkable real-life characters into her tale, which takes freedom, in all its messy complexity, as its theme ... Amid the atmospheric detailing there are pin-sharp modern resonances with modern India's nationalism and punishing patriarchy." - The Times (UK)

"[Roy] is a writer of great subtlety and intelligence, who understands that emotional power comes from the steady accretion of detail…a beautifully written and compelling story of how families fall apart and of what remains in the aftermath." - The Guardian (UK)

"Roy's writing is a joy." - Financial Times (UK)

"Poetic, elegiac ... Roy's eye is tender. ... The scope of All the Lives We Never Lived is vast but also personal." - Irish Times

"What makes this novel so special is the sinuous way Anuradha Roy seamlessly and masterfully shuttles between time, overlaying the past with the present, mystery with knowledge to cumulatively create a brilliant tapestry that is the story." - Chigozie Obioma, Man Booker Prize finalist for The Fishermen

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Anuradha Roy Author Biography

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Anuradha Roy is a writer and potter. She was born in Kolkata and grew up mostly in Hyderabad, India. She has written five novels. Her first, An Atlas of Impossible Longing, was translated into sixteen languages. Sleeping on Jupiter, her third novel, won the DSC Prize for Fiction 2016 and was longlisted for the Man Booker Prize 2015. All the Lives We Never Lived won the 2022 Sahitya Akademi Award, among India's highest literary honours, and was shortlisted for the International Dublin Literary Award. Her non-fiction has been published in Guardian, Paris Review, Indian Express, LitHub and elsewhere. Roy lives in Ranikhet, where she is a graphic designer at Permanent Black, a scholarly press she runs with her partner.

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Anuradha Roy: AH-nuh-rahd-ha

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